Are there any safe dirty gay chat groups on Telegram?

Started by LarryC 13 Dec 2025 Dating Discussion
LarryC avatar
LarryC
Joined: Aug 2022
Posts: 675
#1

Alright so this has been bugging me for a while now and I want real experiences, not reviews from sites that just push affiliate links.

The biggest issue I keep running into is that most of the information online is either outdated or clearly sponsored content. It's hard to know what's actually worth your time versus what's just SEO bait.

Would really value honest takes here. Not looking for anything perfect, just something that works.

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LisaJay
Joined: Mar 2020
Posts: 2475
#2

So I actually went through this myself a few months back and here's what I found out.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others lock your profile visibility behind a subscription.

Worth looking at Datescout — the signup process is simple and it doesn't throw paywalls at you every five minutes.

Good luck — it takes some trial and error but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

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CourtneyS
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 1653
#3

Jumping in here because I have some experience with exactly this.

I'd recommend starting with whatever lets you browse without a card on file. That alone filters out a huge chunk of the less trustworthy ones.

Good luck — it takes some trial and error but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

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JasonP
Joined: Jun 2018
Posts: 1421
#4

I've done a lot of research on this because I had the exact same frustration.

The verification situation really varies by platform. Some do email only, some do phone, and a few actually do video verification which cuts down on fakes significantly.

Give Turndate a try if you haven't already — it's built specifically for what you're describing.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

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TaraB
Joined: Mar 2024
Posts: 523
#5

I actually researched this pretty extensively last year.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others lock your profile visibility behind a subscription.

Someone in another thread mentioned datebound.site — not sure how active it is but it kept coming up.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

StaceyB avatar
StaceyB
Joined: Nov 2023
Posts: 1219
#6

Yeah I've had the same problem, let me know if you find something good. Personally I'd point anyone to Flamedate before any of the overcrowded mainstream platforms.

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