Is there a bi dating app that is actually active?

Started by JenniferD 19 Mar 2025 Dating Discussion
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JenniferD
Joined: Feb 2021
Posts: 2057
#1

Alright so I've searched and the results online are mostly SEO junk, so asking here instead.

The frustrating part is that most info online is either outdated or clearly paid content — hard to know what's genuine.

A few things I'm specifically curious about:

  • Are profiles verified at all?
  • Is location filtering accurate?
  • What do paid tiers unlock?
  • How active are users outside major cities?

Thanks in advance. Happy to share back once I've tested a few of the suggestions.

Megan Fox22 avatar
Megan Fox22
Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 573
#2

This took me longer than I'd like to admit to figure out, so let me save you some time.

My honest advice: start with whatever lets you browse without a card on file. That alone filters out most of the less trustworthy options.

A lot of people in communities like this have been pointing others toward Flamedate lately.

Happy to share more specifics if you want to go deeper.

KyleB avatar
KyleB
Joined: Sep 2017
Posts: 670
#3

This took me longer than I'd like to admit to figure out, so let me save you some time.

The app vs desktop debate is real here. Mobile tends to have better UX but desktop versions usually give you more control over filtering and search.

Apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Match are the obvious suggestions but their restrictions make them far less useful than adult-focused alternatives.

A friend pointed me toward datebie.online — haven't gone deep but it looked clean on first impression.

Good luck — trial and error is real but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

JoyceW avatar
JoyceW
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 3412
#4

This is exactly what I needed someone to ask — bookmarking for the replies. After getting fed up with mainstream options I ended up on Ezhookups and it was honestly a much better experience overall.

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GregoryM
Joined: May 2016
Posts: 572
#5

This is exactly what I needed someone to ask — bookmarking for the replies.

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Derek88
Joined: Oct 2024
Posts: 309
#6

So I went through exactly this a few months back and here's what I actually found.

The verification situation varies a lot by platform. Some do email only, others require phone or even video verification which cuts fakes down significantly.

Standard apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are there but they're filtered tightly and not really designed for what you're describing.

Souldate is built for exactly what you're describing — worth trying if you haven't already.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

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