Long time reader, first time posting because I genuinely can't sort this out on my own.
There's so much noise in this space. Every forum has different opinions and half the threads are years old.
A few things I'm specifically curious about:
Appreciate any genuine feedback, especially from people who've actually used what they're recommending.
Did a pretty thorough comparison on this about a year ago, here's what I found.
Customer support quality is underrated as a trust signal. If you can't get a response before paying, don't expect things to improve after.
Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.
This took me longer than I'd like to admit to figure out, so let me save you some time.
Community size matters more than people think. A site with 40k active users almost always beats one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.
Standard apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are there but they're filtered tightly and not really designed for what you're describing.
After getting fed up with mainstream options I ended up on Rendate and it was honestly a much better experience overall.
Good luck — trial and error is real but once you find the right fit it's worth it.
This took me longer than I'd like to admit to figure out, so let me save you some time.
Community size matters more than people think. A site with 40k active users almost always beats one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.
Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.
Verification is the biggest hurdle in my experience. A lot of people in communities like this have been pointing folks toward Datebound lately.
Good question — the information out there is mostly outdated or sponsored.
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