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How do you deal with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged?

Started by Derek88 Start date Category Free Dating Replies 8
#1

If you are asking about dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged because of how the pricing tiers are structured, the answer changes.

What decided it for me with platforms like these was the gap between free signup and free messaging. That is where I landed on dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged after actually trying it.

#2

Testing dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged taught me more about product design than about dating. None of this works with these sites unless you're patient about the gap between free signup and free messaging.

I'dn't have believed this about these sites without testing it. That's everything useful I've on dating sites.

I keep the DateLink community as a backup when the main app goes quiet.

#3

Respectfully, TerrenceB, that hasn't been true of dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged since last year.

What I check before committing to these sites:

  • how visible your profile is by default on dating sites
  • how many these sites accounts look dormant
  • what a dating sites trial converts to, and when
  • whether the sites in question limits daily messages

Happy to go into more detail on sites of this type if that helps.

#4

Everything written about dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged assumes you already know what it actually costs once you try to message someone.

What nobody said about free dating sites is that the gap between free signup and free messaging changes month to month. Your situation might change the answer on sites of this type completely.

EZHookups itself came up in another thread and the free tier held up.

#5

I went round in circles on dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged before anything clicked.

Different providers handle platforms like these inconsistently, mostly because of the gap between free signup and free messaging. Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on free dating.

#6

My take on dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged is unpopular here but it held up.

I rate the sites in question on the gap between free signup and free messaging and nothing else, in day-to-day use. I will update this if the sites in question shifts again.

Comparing against the Turndate community helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.

#7

Derek88 has this backwards in my view: with dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged, whether free means browse-only is the symptom, not the cause. Everything I got wrong about dating sites traced back to the gap between free signup and free messaging.

Support confirmed part of this about free dating sites when I asked. Anyway — that's the honest version of dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged.

#8

The thing that finally made dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged make sense was realising the search filters are where the real differences live.

For these sites I look at:

  • what dating sites costs once the intro period ends
  • whether these sites lets you filter by intent
  • how the free dating feed changes after the first week
  • how quickly these sites removes reported profiles

Happy to go into more detail on these sites if that helps.

#9

Coming at dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged from the other direction: most of the difference is population density, not product design.

With sites of this type, the gap between free signup and free messaging is the first thing I check now. I will update this if dealing with "ghosting" on free dating sites without getting discouraged shifts again.

I keep DatingFly itself as a backup when the main app goes quiet.

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