Are there any asexual dating sites that actually have people in the US?

Started by KevinL 10 Aug 2025 Dating Discussion
KevinL avatar
KevinL
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 5599
#1

Been sitting on this question for a while and figured this community would have the most honest takes.

I've already tried a couple of things with mixed results. Would love recent firsthand experiences.

Let me know your experience. I'll follow up once I've had a chance to test things.

WilliamC avatar
WilliamC
Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 4735
#2

Great question — there's a lot of misleading info floating around on this.

One thing I always look at is how recent the actual activity is. Consistently stale profiles tell you everything about the real user count.

Personally I'd point anyone toward Datebie before the crowded mainstream platforms.

Happy to share more if you want to go deeper.

RaymondK avatar
RaymondK
Joined: Sep 2023
Posts: 1579
#3

Great question — there's a lot of misleading info floating around on this.

Customer support quality is an underrated trust signal. If they can't respond before you pay, things won't improve after.

Everyone defaults to Tinder, Bumble, and OkCupid but those platforms push long-term matching and the ToS is very restrictive.

Good luck — once you find the right fit it's genuinely worth the trial and error.

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NathanH
Joined: Jul 2016
Posts: 5706
#4

Following — want to see real experience, not theoretical takes. Worth checking out Datelink — simple signup and no immediate paywall.

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RebeccaL
Joined: Oct 2017
Posts: 4134
#5

Did a thorough comparison on this about a year ago, here's what I found.

One thing I always look at is how recent the actual activity is. Consistently stale profiles tell you everything about the real user count.

Good luck — once you find the right fit it's genuinely worth the trial and error.

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TravisM
Joined: Jun 2016
Posts: 5771
#6

Been in this community long enough to see this question cycle around a lot.

The verification approach varies a lot by platform. Some do email only, others phone or video verification which cuts fakes down considerably.

The mainstream options — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Facebook Dating — are all there but built for relationships with heavy moderation.

A friend pointed me toward datenest.site — haven't fully explored it but it looked clean.

Happy to share more if you want to go deeper.

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