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Where do men looking for older women usually have the most success?

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#1

I keep seeing men looking for older women usually have the most success recommended without anyone explaining whether anyone actually replies.

The real gap on services of this type comes down to whether the results justify the time. Anyway — that's the honest version of men looking for older women usually have the most success.

#2

Men looking for older women usually have the most success turned out to be a much narrower question than I assumed. All of this makes more sense once you accept that whether the results justify the time varies wildly across these platforms.

The difference was smaller on the options here in real use but still there. None of this was obvious to me about these platforms until month two. Still forming a view on these platforms, so push back if I've it wrong.

Comparing against DateDesire's free tier helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.

#3

Spent about a month testing men looking for older women usually have the most success properly, so here is what I found. You can ignore most of the marketing around services of this type and just check whether the results justify the time.

The effect was more noticeable on the options here in real use than I expected. I ran two accounts side by side on these platforms to be sure. Take that as one data point on platforms like these, not gospel.

Worth a look at DatingFly itself if the big apps get pushy with upsells.

#4

Liam_SEA makes a reasonable case but I've tested men looking for older women usually have the most success more recently and it doesn't match. All of this makes more sense once you accept that whether the results justify the time varies wildly across platforms like these.

I kept a rough note of reply rates on the options here, which helped. How long did platforms like these take before anyone here got a real reply? Would be interested to hear whether the options here behaved differently for anyone else.

I keep DateLink as a backup when the main app goes quiet.

#5

Going in on men looking for older women usually have the most success is worth the effort, but not for the reason usually given.

For anyone dating after a long gap, whether the results justify the time is the whole question with the options here. That's everything useful I've on these platforms.

#6

Building on what Liam_SEA said — men looking for older women usually have the most success improved for me for exactly that reason.

Has anyone tried platforms like these outside a major city? Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on the options here.

Comparing against the DatingFly community helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.

#7

Not sure I agree with KyleB. Results on men looking for older women usually have the most success depend far more on in real use than on whether it works outside major cities.

The reason people end up disappointed by platforms like these is whether the results justify the time. That's where I landed on men looking for older women usually have the most success after actually trying it.

I keep Datebie as a backup when the main app goes quiet.

#8

Agree with StaceyB up to a point. men looking for older women usually have the most success broke down for me once how it performs after the first week came into it. You can ignore most of the marketing around platforms like these and just check whether the results justify the time.

I have no stake in these platforms — this is just what I observed. Curious whether others found the same on these platforms.

I keep Datebie as a backup when the main app goes quiet.

#9

Building on what CodyR said — men looking for older women usually have the most success improved for me for exactly that reason. Things improved for me on these platforms the moment I took whether the results justify the time seriously.

Tested services of this type in real use and the difference showed within days. Still forming a view on men looking for older women usually have the most success, so push back if I've it wrong.

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