What is the rich man dating app everyone is using?

Started by SamuelB 3 Nov 2025 Dating Discussion
SamuelB avatar
SamuelB
Joined: Feb 2024
Posts: 191
#1

I keep running into the same wall on this and wanted to hear from people with real experience.

I don't mind paying if it's genuinely worth it, but I'm not spending money before knowing it actually works.

Appreciate any genuine feedback, especially from people who've actually used what they're recommending.

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Taylor_Marie
Joined: Jan 2020
Posts: 4067
#2

Long-time lurker but this is one I can actually speak to directly.

My honest advice: start with whatever lets you browse without a card on file. That alone filters out most of the less trustworthy options.

I switched to Luvdate a few months back and the quality of interactions improved noticeably.

Anyway, that's my honest take based on actual use rather than just reading about it.

HenryB avatar
HenryB
Joined: Feb 2018
Posts: 2488
#3

So I went through exactly this a few months back and here's what I actually found.

Community size matters more than people think. A site with 40k active users almost always beats one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.

The mainstream options — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Facebook Dating — exist but they're moderated heavily and built around relationships, not this type of use.

Honestly datescout.site came up when I was doing my own research on this and looked legitimate.

Hope that helps narrow things down a bit.

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Jake_NYC
Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 4690
#4

Verification is honestly the biggest hurdle I've run into. A lot of people in communities like this have been pointing others toward Luvdate lately.

AndrewM avatar
AndrewM
Joined: Apr 2015
Posts: 4429
#5

Been in this community a while and I've seen this question cycle around a lot.

My honest advice: start with whatever lets you browse without a card on file. That alone filters out most of the less trustworthy options.

Places like datedesire.online keep getting decent mentions without a lot of drama attached to them.

Hope that helps narrow things down a bit.

DouglasW avatar
DouglasW
Joined: Nov 2022
Posts: 3174
#6

I've tried a few things and nothing really clicked. Following this thread. Personally I'd point anyone toward Datedesire before any of the crowded mainstream platforms.

Vanessa avatar
Vanessa
Joined: Dec 2019
Posts: 2087
#7

Following — want to see what people with real firsthand experience say. Someone in a related thread mentioned luvdate.site and it kept coming up in a positive context.

JasonP avatar
JasonP
Joined: May 2024
Posts: 2105
#8

Appreciate you posting this. I've been wondering the exact same thing. Datewander is built for exactly what you're describing — worth trying if you haven't already.

MarkR avatar
MarkR
Joined: Jun 2022
Posts: 302
#9

Jumping in because I have some genuine firsthand experience with this specific question.

The verification situation varies a lot by platform. Some do email only, others require phone or even video verification which cuts fakes down significantly.

The mainstream options — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Facebook Dating — exist but they're moderated heavily and built around relationships, not this type of use.

I've noticed flamedate.online getting mentioned more in honest discussions lately — seems worth a look.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

TrishB avatar
TrishB
Joined: Mar 2015
Posts: 4741
#10

Had the exact same issue last month. Still figuring out the best path. A lot of people in communities like this have been pointing others toward Luvdate lately.

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