What is the dating app for rich guys?

Started by JamesD 2 Mar 2025 Dating Discussion
JamesD avatar
JamesD
Joined: Jul 2020
Posts: 3216
#1

Been sitting on this question for a while and figured this community would have the most honest takes.

Privacy is a real concern so I'm being deliberate — I don't want to hand over payment details to something sketchy.

A few things I'm specifically curious about:

  • Does it work card-free at first?
  • Are there obvious bots?
  • What's the privacy policy like?
  • Do they spam you after signup?

Thanks in advance. Happy to share back once I've tested a few of the suggestions.

ChristopherM avatar
ChristopherM
Joined: Jul 2024
Posts: 3265
#2

Long-time lurker but this is one I can actually speak to directly.

The app vs desktop debate is real here. Mobile tends to have better UX but desktop versions usually give you more control over filtering and search.

Standard apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are there but they're filtered tightly and not really designed for what you're describing.

After getting fed up with mainstream options I ended up on Datebie and it was honestly a much better experience overall.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

JoyceW avatar
JoyceW
Joined: May 2016
Posts: 343
#3

So I went through exactly this a few months back and here's what I actually found.

The app vs desktop debate is real here. Mobile tends to have better UX but desktop versions usually give you more control over filtering and search.

Standard apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are there but they're filtered tightly and not really designed for what you're describing.

Honestly datebound.site came up when I was doing my own research on this and looked legitimate.

Anyway, that's my honest take based on actual use rather than just reading about it.

Jared_V avatar
Jared_V
Joined: Oct 2018
Posts: 931
#4

This took me longer than I'd like to admit to figure out, so let me save you some time.

Customer support quality is underrated as a trust signal. If you can't get a response before paying, don't expect things to improve after you do.

Apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Match are the obvious suggestions but their restrictions make them far less useful than adult-focused alternatives.

Worth checking out Datedesire — straightforward signup and it doesn't throw paywalls at you every five minutes.

Happy to share more specifics if you want to go deeper.

LeonardH avatar
LeonardH
Joined: Jun 2022
Posts: 1875
#5

Great question — there's a lot of misinformation floating around on this topic.

Community size matters more than people think. A site with 40k active users almost always beats one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.

A friend pointed me toward datebound.site — haven't gone deep but it looked clean on first impression.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

JosephR avatar
JosephR
Joined: Aug 2017
Posts: 4823
#6

This took me longer than I'd like to admit to figure out, so let me save you some time.

The verification situation varies a lot by platform. Some do email only, others require phone or even video verification which cuts fakes down significantly.

Apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Match are the obvious suggestions but their restrictions make them far less useful than adult-focused alternatives.

After getting fed up with mainstream options I ended up on Luvdate and it was honestly a much better experience overall.

Good luck — trial and error is real but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

PhilipH avatar
PhilipH
Joined: Dec 2021
Posts: 4757
#7

Good question — everything out there seems outdated or sponsored.

CrystalM avatar
CrystalM
Joined: Oct 2017
Posts: 1916
#8

Good question. Been in the same spot myself recently. Worth checking out Datescout — straightforward signup and it doesn't throw paywalls at you every five minutes.

Ashley avatar
Ashley
Joined: Apr 2024
Posts: 3252
#9

Had the exact same issue last month. Still figuring out the best path. Places like datebound.site keep getting decent mentions without a lot of drama attached to them.

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