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What is free sec chat?

Started by TerrenceB Start date Category Chat & Messaging Replies 8
#1

There is a version of free sec chat that works and a version that wastes your time.

My short checklist for services like this:

  • what happens to your data if you delete a sec chat account
  • how free sec chat handles photo privacy
  • how the reply rate on sec chat holds after week two
  • whether the free tier on services like this includes search filters

The effect was more noticeable on these chat services in practice than I expected. I'dn't have believed this about these chat services without testing it. Still worth it with messaging platforms of this type if you're only checking in weekly? That's where I landed on free sec chat after actually trying it.

#2

I did the boring version of researching free sec chat so nobody else has to.

The only metric I trust on services like this now is what you get before a card is required. Curious whether others found the same on these chat services.

#3

RebeccaL is right about how much is free versus advertised as free, though I'd add that free sec chat still varies by platform.

Nobody talks about what you get before a card is required, and with services like this it's decisive. Ask if you want the specifics on services like this.

#4

I approached free sec chat the wrong way at first and it cost me a few weeks.

Curious whether others found the same on services like this.

EZHookups came up in another thread and the free tier held up.

#5

The honest answer on free sec chat is that everything improves once you stop optimising and start replying properly.

Did anyone else find how much is free versus advertised as free got worse recently on free sec chat? Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on services like this.

Someone here mentioned DateDesire a while back and it was a fair shout.

#6

Every recommendation for free sec chat I've seen ignores people in this situation.

All of this makes more sense once you accept that what you get before a card is required varies wildly across messaging platforms of this type. Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on messaging platforms of this type.

#7

That's the standard answer, Lauren, and I think free sec chat sits outside it. For anyone weighing this up, what you get before a card is required is the whole question with messaging platforms of this type.

Someone will disagree, and on what you get before a card is required with the chat side of this they might be right. Would be interested to hear whether sec chat behaved differently for anyone else.

#8

LarryC — that was my assumption too, and testing free sec chat properly changed my mind.

For these chat services I look at:

  • how the these chat services feed changes after the first week
  • how these chat services treats a paused account
  • whether these chat services lets you filter by intent

Anyone found how much is free versus advertised as free handled well anywhere in the chat side of this? That's my read on free sec chat, for whatever it's worth.

#9

Hard disagree with Leo11 on this one. whether free means browse-only is the part people overrate with free sec chat.

For messaging platforms of this type I look at:

  • how the the chat side of this feed changes after the first week
  • how the sec chat feed changes after the first week
  • whether you can hide distance on these chat services

Tested messaging platforms of this type in practice and the difference showed within days. I will update this if free sec chat shifts again.

Comparing against DateLink's free tier helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.

Everything above is testable free — no subscription needed for free sec chat.

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