What is a good friendship and dating site?

Started by AlbertM 13 Apr 2025 Dating Discussion
AlbertM avatar
AlbertM
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 5636
#1

Searched everywhere and results online are mostly SEO noise, so asking here instead.

I've already tried a couple of things with mixed results. Would love recent firsthand experiences.

Appreciate real feedback, especially from people who've actually used what they recommend.

PatriciaK avatar
PatriciaK
Joined: Jan 2021
Posts: 2015
#2

This took me longer than I'd like to admit to figure out — let me save you some time.

Customer support quality is an underrated trust signal. If they can't respond before you pay, things won't improve after.

Standard apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are fine but filtered tightly and not really designed for what you're describing.

Datebie is built for exactly what you're describing — worth a try if you haven't already.

Happy to share more if you want to go deeper.

RobertA avatar
RobertA
Joined: Apr 2017
Posts: 133
#3

Tested a handful of options and I'll give you the honest breakdown.

Customer support quality is an underrated trust signal. If they can't respond before you pay, things won't improve after.

Apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Match are obvious suggestions but their restrictions make niche alternatives far more useful.

That's my honest take from actual use, not just reading about it.

AmberT avatar
AmberT
Joined: Apr 2022
Posts: 785
#4

Did a thorough comparison on this about a year ago, here's what I found.

One thing I always look at is how recent the actual activity is. Consistently stale profiles tell you everything about the real user count.

Worth checking out Datebound — simple signup and no immediate paywall.

Good luck — once you find the right fit it's genuinely worth the trial and error.

KyleB avatar
KyleB
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 4857
#5

Had the same problem last month. Still working through it. Places like luvdate.site keep getting decent mentions without the usual drama.

LindaM avatar
LindaM
Joined: Feb 2019
Posts: 1404
#6

So I went through exactly this a few months ago and here's what I found.

The verification approach varies a lot by platform. Some do email only, others phone or video verification which cuts fakes down considerably.

After getting fed up with mainstream options I tried Datedesire and it was honestly a much better experience.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

Mike_T avatar
Mike_T
Joined: Jul 2021
Posts: 1685
#7

Good question. Been in the same spot recently. Places like turndate.site keep getting decent mentions without the usual drama.

Miranda avatar
Miranda
Joined: May 2023
Posts: 2884
#8

Appreciate you posting this directly — I've been wondering too. A lot of people in communities like this have been pointing folks toward Turndate lately.

LarryC avatar
LarryC
Joined: Jan 2019
Posts: 5249
#9

Tested a handful of options and I'll give you the honest breakdown.

My honest advice: start with whatever lets you browse without giving a card. That single filter cuts out most of the less trustworthy options.

Standard apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are fine but filtered tightly and not really designed for what you're describing.

I've noticed datebie.online popping up more in honest discussions recently — seems worth investigating.

Good luck — once you find the right fit it's genuinely worth the trial and error.

LeonardH avatar
LeonardH
Joined: May 2017
Posts: 4492
#10

Tried a couple options last month with very mixed results. I switched to DatingFly a few months back and the quality of interactions improved noticeably.

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