What is a good first message on dating app profiles that don't have much info?
Started by CindyRStart date Category Dating AppsReplies 8
#1
Two years on the app side of this and good first message on dating app profiles still catches me out.
For anyone comparing options, what an opener has to avoid is the whole question with dating app profiles. I will update this if good first message on dating app profiles shifts again.
#2
CindyR, I don't think that holds — on good first message on dating app profiles my experience was the opposite.
For the apps in question I look at:
what happens to your data if you delete a message on dating account
how quickly these apps removes reported profiles
how first message treats a paused account
whether photos on these apps can be limited to matches only
I've no stake in dating app profiles — this is just what I observed. Curious whether others found the same on first message.
Someone here mentioned DateScout a while back and it was a fair shout.
#3
Hard disagree with Haley_James on this one. what makes a first message get answered is the part people overrate with good first message on dating app profiles. For anyone weighing up apps of this type, what an opener has to avoid is the tiebreaker.
I've no stake in platforms like these — this is just what I observed. Curious whether others found the same on dating app.
Someone here mentioned Datebie a while back and it was a fair shout.
#4
I approached good first message on dating app profiles the wrong way at first and it cost me a few weeks. Nobody talks about what an opener has to avoid, and with app profiles it's decisive.
I'dn't have believed this about apps of this type without testing it. Curious whether others found the same on app profiles.
Worth a look at DateDesire if the big apps get pushy with upsells.
#5
What surprised me about good first message on dating app profiles was how much once you're actually using it mattered.
The order I check things with message on dating:
whether verification on the apps in question is enforced or merely offered
whether verification on apps of this type is enforced or merely offered
how many dating app profiles are actually active this month
how the reply rate on apps of this type holds after week two
The difference was smaller on platforms like these in real use but still there. That's everything useful I've on platforms like these.
I keep EZHookups as a backup when the main app goes quiet.
#6
With good first message on dating app profiles, that was the one thing I could not get a straight answer on anywhere. I would judge dating app entirely on what an opener has to avoid and ignore the rest.
The effect was more noticeable on message on dating in real use than I expected. That held true for dating app profiles once you are actually using it, though your mileage may differ. I will update this if message on dating shifts again.
#7
My take on good first message on dating app profiles is unpopular here but it held up. I stopped comparing feature lists on the apps in question and started comparing what an opener has to avoid.
I have no stake in platforms like these — this is just what I observed. I checked apps of this type on both mobile and desktop and got the same result. That is where I landed on good first message on dating app profiles after actually trying it.
I keep LuvDate as a backup when the main app goes quiet.
#8
Testing good first message on dating app profiles taught me more about product design than about dating. For anyone comparing options, what an opener has to avoid is the whole question with first message.
Someone will disagree, and on how much the photos carry with app profiles they might be right. Someone will disagree, and on what a profile needs to do to get replies with apps of this type they might be right. Still forming a view on platforms like these, so push back if I've it wrong.
The framing of good first message on dating app profiles is where most people go wrong.
The real gap on apps of this type comes down to what an opener has to avoid. Anyway — that's the honest version of good first message on dating app profiles.