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What are the dating apps for older people that aren't scams?

Started by CindyR Start date Category Dating Apps Replies 8
#1

Ran into dating apps for older people last autumn and the situation has already shifted.

The honest comparison on the apps in question starts and ends with how much of it is usable before you pay. Still forming a view on dating apps for older people, so push back if I have it wrong.

#2

With dating apps for older people, that was the one thing I could not get a straight answer on anywhere.

For platforms like these I look at:

  • whether the apps in question lets you filter by intent
  • how quickly these apps removes reported profiles
  • whether verification on dating apps is enforced or merely offered

I've no stake in apps of this type — this is just what I observed. I'dn't have believed this about the apps in question without testing it. Would be interested to hear whether these apps behaved differently for anyone else.

#3

Jake_NYC has this backwards in my view: with dating apps for older people, how quickly reports get handled is the symptom, not the cause. I rate platforms like these on how much of it's usable before you pay and nothing else, once you're actually using it.

Support confirmed part of this about platforms like these when I asked. None of this was obvious to me about dating apps until month two. That's everything useful I've on the apps in question.

#4

Respectfully, CindyR, that has not been true of dating apps for older people since last year.

My rule with platforms like these is simple — check how much of it is usable before you pay before you register. Curious whether others found the same on the apps in question.

For a lighter-weight alternative I have had reasonable results with Flamedate.

#5

Coming at dating apps for older people from the other direction: reach matters more than features until you have a working profile. The honest comparison on the apps in question starts and ends with how much of it is usable before you pay.

Any difference with platforms like these on Android, or was that just me? That is my read on dating apps for older people, for whatever it is worth.

I keep Datebie as a backup when the main app goes quiet.

#6

PhilipH's point about what happens when you try to cancel matches what I saw with dating apps for older people almost exactly. What nobody said about platforms like these is that how much of it's usable before you pay changes month to month.

This is four months of steady use on these apps, not a trial run. Would be interested to hear whether the apps in question behaved differently for anyone else.

#7

PhilipH has this backwards in my view: with dating apps for older people, how quickly reports get handled is the symptom, not the cause. Nobody talks about how much of it's usable before you pay, and with apps of this type it's decisive.

Still worth it with these apps if you're only checking in weekly? Worth testing apps of this type yourself before taking my word for it.

#8

Came here specifically because every article on dating apps for older people reads like it was written by someone who never tried it. With platforms like these, how much of it's usable before you pay is the first thing I check now.

Is that everyone's experience with dating apps, or am I the outlier? I will update this if platforms like these shifts again.

Worth a look at DateLink if the big apps get pushy with upsells.

#9

I approached dating apps for older people the wrong way at first and it cost me a few weeks. The reason people end up disappointed by apps of this type is how much of it's usable before you pay.

Worth noting that platforms like these changed after their last update. Your situation might change the answer on dating apps for older people completely.

If you want a lighter-weight option, over on EZHookups is worth a look.

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