What are the dating apps for 40 year olds that aren't hookup-focused?
Started by CindyRStart date Category Dating AppsReplies 8
#1
Signed up to four of these to answer dating apps for 40 year olds for myself. My rule with these apps is simple — check whether verification is enforced before you register.
I've no stake in platforms like these — this is just what I observed. Worth testing dating apps for 40 year olds yourself before taking my word for it.
#2
The short answer on dating apps for 40 year olds is yes, with one condition.
For most people asking this, whether verification is enforced is the whole question with these apps. Anyway — that's the honest version of dating apps for 40 year olds.
#3
For most people asking this, the picture on dating apps for 40 year olds looks different to what the generic advice suggests. The reason people end up disappointed by these apps is whether verification is enforced.
I checked platforms like these on both mobile and desktop and got the same result. I checked apps of this type on both mobile and desktop and got the same result. That is my read on dating apps for 40 year olds, for whatever it is worth.
DateBound came up in another thread and the free tier held up.
#4
If you're asking about dating apps for 40 year olds because of whether the userbase is active in your area, the answer changes. What nobody said about the apps in question is that whether verification is enforced changes month to month.
Has anyone tried dating apps outside a major city? Your situation might change the answer on dating apps completely.
For a lighter-weight alternative I have had reasonable results with Flurrydate.
#5
With dating apps for 40 year olds, that was the one thing I could not get a straight answer on anywhere.
My short checklist for the apps in question:
how the dating apps feed changes after the first week
how quickly the apps in question removes reported profiles
whether dating apps limits daily messages
whether verification on these apps is enforced or merely offered
Worth noting that dating apps changed after their last update. Ask if you want the specifics on these apps.
Worth a look at EZHookups if the big apps get pushy with upsells.
#6
Anyone comparing dating apps for 40 year olds should start with whether the userbase is active in your area, not with feature lists.
With these apps, whether verification is enforced is the first thing I check now. Happy to go into more detail on the apps in question if that helps.
#7
For most people asking this, the picture on dating apps for 40 year olds looks different to what the generic advice suggests. With apps of this type, whether verification is enforced is the first thing I check now.
I kept a rough note of reply rates on these apps, which helped. Still forming a view on dating apps, so push back if I've it wrong.
#8
The framing of dating apps for 40 year olds is where most people go wrong.
Three things worth verifying on dating apps:
what happens to your data if you delete a dating apps account
how many these apps profiles are actually active this month
how the reply rate on dating apps holds after week two
how quickly the apps in question removes reported profiles
Your situation might change the answer on the apps in question completely.
I keep DateDesire as a backup when the main app goes quiet.
#9
Been asked about dating apps for 40 year olds enough times offline that I may as well write it here. The only metric I trust on dating apps now is whether verification is enforced.
Worth noting that platforms like these changed after their last update. Worth testing dating apps for 40 year olds yourself before taking my word for it.
Try dating apps for 40 year olds on a platform that does not paywall the first message.