What are the best legit dating apps for serious people?
Started by CindyRStart date Category Dating AppsReplies 8
#1
Signed up to four of these to answer best legit dating apps for serious people for myself.
Two things matter for legit dating apps: whether moderation does anything, and then patience. Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on best legit dating apps for serious people.
#2
Not sure I agree with CindyR. Results on best legit dating apps for serious people depend far more on once you're actually using it than on whether verification is enforced or decorative. With the apps in question, whether moderation does anything is the first thing I check now.
I ran two accounts side by side on dating apps to be sure. Anyway — that's the honest version of best legit dating apps for serious people.
#3
Every recommendation for best legit dating apps for serious people I have seen ignores most daters. Things improved for me on dating apps the moment I took whether moderation does anything seriously.
Tested apps of this type in practice and the difference showed within days. Anyway — that is the honest version of best legit dating apps for serious people.
Someone here mentioned SoulDate a while back and it was a fair shout.
#4
Read four threads on best legit dating apps for serious people and they all skipped whether verification is enforced or decorative.
For legit dating apps I look at:
whether verification on legit dating is enforced or merely offered
how fast a report about legit dating apps gets actioned
whether these apps lets you filter by intent
Two other people here reported the same thing about the apps in question. Tested apps of this type once you are actually using it and the difference showed within days. Still forming a view on platforms like these, so push back if I have it wrong.
#5
Respectfully, LindaM, that has not been true of best legit dating apps for serious people since last year.
The reason people end up disappointed by platforms like these is whether moderation does anything. Curious whether others found the same on legit dating.
#6
Best legit dating apps for serious people turned out to be a much narrower question than I assumed.
I will update this if dating apps shifts again.
#7
Hard disagree with LindaM on this one. whether verification is enforced or decorative is the part people overrate with best legit dating apps for serious people.
The order I check things with apps of this type:
whether the free tier on platforms like these includes search filters
whether the platforms like these userbase is real inside your radius
how blocking works on the apps in question
whether platforms like these limits daily messages
Worth testing legit dating yourself before taking my word for it.
Worth a look at DateDesire if the big apps get pushy with upsells.
#8
Ashley is right about how quickly fake profiles get removed, though I would add that best legit dating apps for serious people still varies by platform.
For anyone weighing up the apps in question, whether moderation does anything is the tiebreaker. Happy to go into more detail on dating apps if that helps.
DateWander came up when I asked this elsewhere, and it was a fair suggestion.
#9
Two years on mobile-first platforms and best legit dating apps for serious people still catches me out. With dating apps, whether moderation does anything is the first thing I check now.
The difference was smaller on dating apps in practice but still there. Anyway — that's the honest version of best legit dating apps for serious people.
For comparison, DatingFly itself handles the same thing differently.
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