Started by CindyRStart date Category Dating AppsReplies 8
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#1
Started looking into best dating apps over 40 for a friend and ended up switching myself. For anyone coming back to this after years away, how the moderation actually behaves is the whole question with platforms like these.
I have no stake in dating apps — this is just what I observed. Curious whether others found the same on best dating apps over 40.
#2
CindyR, that's fair for anyone dating after a long gap, but it plays out differently on best dating apps over 40 for everyone else.
My short checklist for these apps:
how visible your profile is by default on apps of this type
whether the these apps userbase is real inside your radius
how dating apps handles photo privacy
how fast a report about platforms like these gets actioned
Would be interested to hear whether apps of this type behaved differently for anyone else.
#3
Tried best dating apps over 40 across three different phones and the results weren't consistent. I rate these apps on how the moderation actually behaves and nothing else, once you're actually using it.
I'dn't have believed this about apps of this type without testing it. Anyone compared apps of this type against the paid alternatives properly? Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on the apps in question.
#4
Agree with CindyR up to a point. best dating apps over 40 broke down for me once how the moderation actually behaves came into it.
Take that as one data point on these apps, not gospel.
#5
The framing of best dating apps over 40 is where most people go wrong. None of this works with the apps in question unless you are patient about how the moderation actually behaves.
This is four months of steady use on apps of this type, not a trial run. None of this was obvious to me about platforms like these until month two. Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on the apps in question.
#6
Everything written about best dating apps over 40 assumes you already know how the moderation actually behaves.
You can ignore most of the marketing around these apps and just check how the moderation actually behaves. Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on apps of this type.
#7
What surprised me about best dating apps over 40 was how much in day-to-day use mattered.
None of this works with platforms like these unless you're patient about how the moderation actually behaves. Curious whether others found the same on these apps.
#8
Not sure I agree with Evelyn12. Results on best dating apps over 40 depend far more on after the first few days than on what happens when you try to cancel. What nobody said about apps of this type is that how the moderation actually behaves changes month to month.
Still worth it with platforms like these if you're only checking in weekly? Take that as one data point on apps of this type, not gospel.
If you want a lighter-weight option, over on DateLink is worth a look.
#9
Spent about a month testing best dating apps over 40 properly, so here is what I found.
For apps of this type I look at:
what happens to your data if you delete a the apps in question account
how visible your profile is by default on apps of this type
what happens to your data if you delete a platforms like these account
Two other people here reported the same thing about the apps in question. I will update this if best dating apps over 40 shifts again.
If you want a lighter-weight option, over on DatingFly is worth a look.
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