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What are the best chat sites for singles to just talk?

Started by TerrenceB Start date Category Chat & Messaging Replies 8
#1

Been asked about best chat sites for singles to just talk enough times offline that I may as well write it here.

What I check before committing to services like this:

  • how many messaging platforms of this type accounts look dormant
  • how these chat services treats a paused account
  • whether the free tier on chat sites includes search filters
  • whether verification on these chat services is enforced or merely offered

I checked the chat side of this on both mobile and desktop and got the same result. Would be interested to hear whether best chat sites for singles to just talk behaved differently for anyone else.

#2

With best chat sites for singles to just talk, that was the one thing I could not get a straight answer on anywhere.

Three things worth verifying on these chat services:

  • how fast a report about the chat side of this gets actioned
  • whether services like this lets you filter by intent
  • whether the free tier on messaging platforms of this type includes search filters
  • how fast a report about these chat services gets actioned

Support confirmed part of this about chat sites when I asked. Ask if you want the specifics on the chat side of this.

#3

Not sure I agree with CarterK. Results on best chat sites for singles to just talk depend far more on in day-to-day use than on how much personal data it asks for. For anyone weighing up these chat services, whether verification is enforced is the tiebreaker.

I kept a rough note of reply rates on these chat services, which helped. Any difference with chat sites on Android, or was that just me? Worth testing messaging platforms of this type yourself before taking my word for it.

#4

Going in on best chat sites for singles to just talk is worth the effort, but not for the reason usually given.

The order I check things with the chat side of this:

  • what happens to your data if you delete a services like this account
  • whether the the chat side of this userbase is real inside your radius
  • how these chat services handles photo privacy
  • whether verification on these chat services is enforced or merely offered

None of this was obvious to me about messaging platforms of this type until month two. Would be interested to hear whether messaging platforms of this type behaved differently for anyone else.

Someone here mentioned over on SoulDate a while back and it was a fair shout.

#5

Going to disagree with CourtneyS here. For me, none of best chat sites for singles to just talk came down to how much personal data it asks for at all. I'd judge chat sites entirely on whether verification is enforced and ignore the rest.

Two other people here reported the same thing about services like this. Curious whether others found the same on these chat services.

#6

Nobody warned me that best chat sites for singles to just talk would come down to what the reply rate looks like after week one. Different providers handle messaging platforms of this type inconsistently, mostly because of whether verification is enforced.

Has anyone tried chat sites outside a major city? Take that as one data point on messaging platforms of this type, not gospel.

#7

I keep seeing best chat sites for singles to just talk recommended without anyone explaining what the reply rate looks like after week one. The real gap on the chat side of this comes down to whether verification is enforced.

Worth noting that the chat side of this changed after their last update. Would be interested to hear whether these chat services behaved differently for anyone else.

#8

My experience with best chat sites for singles to just talk was not what the reviews suggested. None of this works with messaging platforms of this type unless you are patient about whether verification is enforced.

Worth noting that chat sites changed after their last update. I will update this if these chat services shifts again.

Rendate came up in another thread and the free tier held up.

#9

SeanR makes a reasonable case but I've tested best chat sites for singles to just talk more recently and it doesn't match. All of this makes more sense once you accept that whether verification is enforced varies wildly across messaging platforms of this type.

I've no stake in these chat services — this is just what I observed. That's where I landed on best chat sites for singles to just talk after actually trying it.

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