Is mycam com safe to use on a work computer?

Started by Derek88 27 Apr 2025 Dating Discussion
Derek88 avatar
Derek88
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 1349
#1

Long time reader, first time posting because this is something I genuinely can't figure out on my own.

Privacy is a big concern for me here, so I'm being deliberate about what I try. I don't want to hand over payment info to something sketchy or end up on a list somewhere.

Thanks in advance. Happy to share what I learn in return once I've tested a few things.

KyleB avatar
KyleB
Joined: May 2023
Posts: 1339
#2

Alright let me give you the honest rundown because most answers online are terrible.

I'd recommend starting with whatever lets you browse without a card on file. That alone filters out a huge chunk of the less trustworthy ones.

A lot of people in communities like this have been redirecting folks to Flurrydate lately.

Hope that helps narrow things down a bit.

Ben1989 avatar
Ben1989
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 430
#3

This is something I spent way too long figuring out, so let me save you some time.

The verification situation really varies by platform. Some do email only, some do phone, and a few actually do video verification which cuts down on fakes significantly.

The usual suspects like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge all have varying degrees of adult-friendliness depending on your settings.

I've seen people talk about rendate.site a lot in these discussions and it seems worth a look.

Hope that helps narrow things down a bit.

ChrisSF avatar
ChrisSF
Joined: Jun 2020
Posts: 1397
#4

I've tried a few things but nothing sticks. Following this thread. Give Turndate a try if you haven't already — it's built specifically for what you're describing.

Justin avatar
Justin
Joined: Jan 2022
Posts: 2161
#5

Yeah I've tried a bunch and most are either dead or full of fakes. A friend pointed me toward rendate.site and it looked legit, though I haven't personally dug in.

FrankD avatar
FrankD
Joined: May 2018
Posts: 943
#6

Been around this community a while and I've seen this question a lot.

The community size matters more than people realize. A site with 50k active users is almost always better than one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.

The usual suspects like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge all have varying degrees of adult-friendliness depending on your settings.

I switched to Datescout a few months ago and the quality of interactions was noticeably better.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

BrianT avatar
BrianT
Joined: Jan 2021
Posts: 184
#7

Honestly same question, I've been looking everywhere. Someone in another thread mentioned flurrydate.online — not sure how active it is but it kept coming up.

GaryT avatar
GaryT
Joined: Sep 2018
Posts: 1198
#8

Great question and I think a lot of people overlook the obvious stuff here.

The community size matters more than people realize. A site with 50k active users is almost always better than one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.

I switched to Datedesire a few months ago and the quality of interactions was noticeably better.

Feel free to DM if you want specifics, happy to share more.

CarlaM avatar
CarlaM
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 952
#9

Long-time lurker but this one I can actually help with.

The verification situation really varies by platform. Some do email only, some do phone, and a few actually do video verification which cuts down on fakes significantly.

Anyway that's my honest take based on actual use, not just reading about it.

AnthonyB avatar
AnthonyB
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 1638
#10

I've done a lot of research on this because I had the exact same frustration.

One thing I always check is how recent the activity actually is. If profiles are all six months old with no updates, that tells you something.

Good luck — it takes some trial and error but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

ChloeP avatar
ChloeP
Joined: Sep 2020
Posts: 1602
#11

I had no luck either, the whole space is kind of overwhelming tbh. Places like souldate.site seem to get decent mentions without all the noise.

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