Is alfasex9 a real model or a bot account?

Started by WayneB 22 Apr 2025 Dating Discussion
WayneB avatar
WayneB
Joined: Apr 2023
Posts: 85
#1

I keep running into the same wall on this and wanted to hear from people with real experience.

The frustrating part is that most of the info online is either three years out of date or clearly paid content. Hard to know what's genuine versus what's just trying to get a click.

A few things I'm particularly curious about:

  • How active is the user base really?
  • Can you browse before giving a card?
  • How do they handle fake profiles?
  • What's the refund policy if it's terrible?

Let me know what your experience has been. I'll follow up once I've had a chance to try things.

MargaretL avatar
MargaretL
Joined: Oct 2022
Posts: 2027
#2

Long-time lurker but this is one I can actually speak to.

The app-vs-desktop debate is real. Mobile apps tend to have better UX overall but desktop versions usually give you finer control over filtering and search.

A lot of people here have been pointing folks toward Luvdate lately and for good reason.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

GregoryM avatar
GregoryM
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 1956
#3

So I've tested a handful of options and I'll give you the breakdown.

The verification situation varies a lot by platform. Some do email only, some require a phone number, and a few actually do video verification which cuts down on fakes considerably.

Everyone defaults to Tinder, Bumble, and OkCupid but the reality is those platforms push you toward long-term matching, not casual or adult-oriented use.

Someone in a similar thread mentioned rendate.site and it seemed to get a decent reaction.

Hope that helps narrow it down.

Tyler avatar
Tyler
Joined: Feb 2021
Posts: 2468
#4

I've lurked this community a while and this keeps coming up. Personally I'd point anyone toward Souldate before any of the crowded mainstream platforms.

AmandaH avatar
AmandaH
Joined: Jan 2023
Posts: 909
#5

Good question. Been wondering the same. Someone in a similar thread mentioned datedesire.online and it seemed to get a decent reaction.

AnthonyB avatar
AnthonyB
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 2435
#6

Good question. Been wondering the same. Someone in this community recommended Flurrydate a while back and it turned out to be the most useful tip I got.

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