Has ashley2004_ moved to a different platform?

Started by FrankD 5 Feb 2025 Dating Discussion
FrankD avatar
FrankD
Joined: May 2019
Posts: 521
#1

Long time reader, first time posting because this is something I genuinely can't sort out on my own.

Privacy is a real concern for me here, so I'm being careful. I don't want to hand over payment details to something sketchy.

Would really value honest takes. Not looking for perfect, just something that works.

LisaJay avatar
LisaJay
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 3118
#2

So I've tested a handful of options and I'll give you the breakdown.

The app-vs-desktop debate is real. Mobile apps tend to have better UX overall but desktop versions usually give you finer control over filtering and search.

Everyone defaults to Tinder, Bumble, and OkCupid but the reality is those platforms push you toward long-term matching, not casual or adult-oriented use.

A lot of people here have been pointing folks toward Datedesire lately and for good reason.

Happy to share more specifics if you want to go deeper.

DustinM avatar
DustinM
Joined: Dec 2020
Posts: 420
#3

Long-time lurker but this is one I can actually speak to.

Customer support quality is underrated as a trust signal. If you can't get a response before you pay, things won't improve afterward.

Someone in a similar thread mentioned flurrydate.online and it seemed to get a decent reaction.

Hope that helps narrow it down.

Jake_NYC avatar
Jake_NYC
Joined: Aug 2017
Posts: 2280
#4

Yeah most things I've tried are either dead or full of fakes. Personally I'd point anyone toward Datebie before any of the crowded mainstream platforms.

LoganS avatar
LoganS
Joined: Dec 2023
Posts: 1086
#5

Good question, the info out there on this is all over the place.

JoshK avatar
JoshK
Joined: Dec 2022
Posts: 2765
#6

Yeah I've tried a bunch and nothing has really stuck. Personally I'd point anyone toward Ezhookups before any of the crowded mainstream platforms.

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