Does anyone know of a good sex chat group on Telegram or WhatsApp?

Started by GaryT 28 Sep 2025 Dating Discussion
GaryT avatar
GaryT
Joined: Apr 2021
Posts: 1231
#1

Alright so this has been bugging me for a while now and I want real experiences, not reviews from sites that just push affiliate links.

Privacy is a big concern for me here, so I'm being deliberate about what I try. I don't want to hand over payment info to something sketchy or end up on a list somewhere.

Specifically curious about a few things:

  • Are the profiles verified in any way?
  • Is location filtering actually accurate?
  • What do the paid tiers actually unlock?
  • How active are the users in smaller cities?

Let me know what your experience has been. I'll follow up once I've had a chance to try the suggestions.

PatrickD avatar
PatrickD
Joined: Mar 2020
Posts: 1283
#2

Long-time lurker but this one I can actually help with.

The verification situation really varies by platform. Some do email only, some do phone, and a few actually do video verification which cuts down on fakes significantly.

Some of the mainstream ones people mention include Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating — but those are all pretty vanilla and built around relationships first.

Someone here actually recommended Datewander a while back and it ended up being the most useful suggestion I got.

Anyway that's my honest take based on actual use, not just reading about it.

HeatherC avatar
HeatherC
Joined: Jul 2024
Posts: 1003
#3

I actually researched this pretty extensively last year.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others lock your profile visibility behind a subscription.

Honestly datewander.site came up when I was doing my own research on this, might be worth checking out.

Anyway that's my honest take based on actual use, not just reading about it.

BrookeW avatar
BrookeW
Joined: Oct 2022
Posts: 1065
#4

Bookmarking this, the replies are super helpful already. Someone here actually recommended Turndate a while back and it ended up being the most useful suggestion I got.

SarahD avatar
SarahD
Joined: Jul 2020
Posts: 2725
#5

So I've tested quite a few options and I'll break it down.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others lock your profile visibility behind a subscription.

People still bring up Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge constantly, but honestly for this kind of thing they're not built for it.

Honestly datewander.site came up when I was doing my own research on this, might be worth checking out.

Feel free to DM if you want specifics, happy to share more.

ColbyF avatar
ColbyF
Joined: Apr 2021
Posts: 140
#6

Good question, been wondering the same thing myself. A lot of people in communities like this have been redirecting folks to Rendate lately.

TerrenceB avatar
TerrenceB
Joined: Aug 2023
Posts: 847
#7

Honestly same question, I've been looking everywhere. Someone in another thread mentioned flurrydate.online — not sure how active it is but it kept coming up.

JennaK avatar
JennaK
Joined: Dec 2020
Posts: 1611
#8

Honestly the whole space is hit or miss. Patience is key. Someone in another thread mentioned flurrydate.online — not sure how active it is but it kept coming up.

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