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Can we get a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage?

Started by Liam_SEA Start date Category Dating Advice Replies 8
#1

Going to push back slightly on how getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage usually gets described. My rule with sites of this type is simple — check whether the free tier includes messaging before you register.

This is four months of steady use on sites of this type, not a trial run. I will update this if getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage shifts again.

#2

Pushing back on Liam_SEA: how the moderation actually behaves isn't the deciding factor with getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage, reach is.

The only metric I trust on the sites in question now is whether the free tier includes messaging. That's where I landed on getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage after actually trying it.

Someone here mentioned Flurrydate a while back and it was a fair shout.

#3

I want to separate two things that get conflated in getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage. With sites of this type, whether the free tier includes messaging is the first thing I check now.

Support confirmed part of this about the sites in question when I asked. I checked sites of this type on both mobile and desktop and got the same result. Worth testing sites of this type yourself before taking my word for it.

For a lighter-weight alternative I have had reasonable results with LuvDate's free tier.

#4

Every recommendation for getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage I have seen ignores the average user. For anyone weighing up the sites in question, whether the free tier includes messaging is the tiebreaker.

I have no stake in sites of this type — this is just what I observed. Support confirmed part of this about sites of this type when I asked. Curious whether others found the same on the sites in question.

#5

Brandon has this backwards in my view: with getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage, how the moderation actually behaves is the symptom, not the cause.

My short checklist for sites of this type:

  • whether these sites limits daily messages
  • how dating sites treats a paused account
  • whether sites of this type exports your data on request
  • whether these sites exports your data on request

That's my read on getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage, for whatever it's worth.

#6

Agree with SharonB up to a point. getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage broke down for me once how quickly reports get handled came into it. What decided it for me with dating sites was whether the free tier includes messaging. That held true for dating sites once you're actually using it, though your mileage may differ.

Someone will disagree, and on whether the free tier includes messaging with list of dating they might be right. Anyone compared platforms like these against the paid alternatives properly? Still forming a view on sites of this type, so push back if I've it wrong.

#7

SamuelB covered most of it. The only thing I would add about getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage is patience. The reason people end up disappointed by the sites in question is whether the free tier includes messaging.

I would not have believed this about list of dating without testing it. The effect was more noticeable on these sites once you are actually using it than I expected. Curious whether others found the same on dating sites.

#8

Agree with Liam_SEA up to a point. getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage broke down for me once how quickly reports get handled came into it.

Happy to go into more detail on dating sites if that helps.

For a lighter-weight alternative I have had reasonable results with Rendate's free tier.

#9

Two years on desktop-first services and getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage still catches me out.

For anyone weighing up the sites in question, whether the free tier includes messaging is the tiebreaker. Ask if you want the specifics on getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage.

Comparing against EZHookups helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.

Everything above is testable free — no subscription needed for getting a comprehensive list of dating sites that focus on marriage.

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