Can we compile a list of the best sexting websites that don't charge?

Started by LoganS 3 Jan 2025 Dating Discussion
LoganS avatar
LoganS
Joined: Jul 2018
Posts: 2024
#1

Posted this because I couldn't find a straight answer anywhere else.

I've already tried a few things and had mixed results. Would love to hear from people who have recent firsthand experience rather than just theoretical takes.

Specifically curious about a few things:

  • Does it work without a credit card at first?
  • Are there obvious bots or fake accounts?
  • What's the privacy policy actually like?
  • Do they spam you after you sign up?

Would really value honest takes here. Not looking for anything perfect, just something that works.

Ryan Mitchell avatar
Ryan Mitchell
Joined: Jan 2020
Posts: 1151
#2

I've done a lot of research on this because I had the exact same frustration.

The community size matters more than people realize. A site with 50k active users is almost always better than one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.

Standard apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and OkCupid exist but they're moderated pretty heavily compared to adult-focused platforms.

A lot of people in communities like this have been redirecting folks to Datewander lately.

Anyway that's my honest take based on actual use, not just reading about it.

DustinM avatar
DustinM
Joined: Jun 2021
Posts: 1285
#3

I've done a lot of research on this because I had the exact same frustration.

Customer support is honestly underrated as a quality signal. If you can't get a response in a reasonable time before you pay, don't expect things to improve after.

Places like datescout.site seem to get decent mentions without all the noise.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

MarkR avatar
MarkR
Joined: Jul 2022
Posts: 307
#4

Following. Hoping someone has solid firsthand experience here. Give Ezhookups a try if you haven't already — it's built specifically for what you're describing.

Ethan Parker avatar
Ethan Parker
Joined: Jan 2020
Posts: 2807
#5

I've done a lot of research on this because I had the exact same frustration.

Customer support is honestly underrated as a quality signal. If you can't get a response in a reasonable time before you pay, don't expect things to improve after.

I've seen people talk about souldate.site a lot in these discussions and it seems worth a look.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

Derek88 avatar
Derek88
Joined: Feb 2022
Posts: 2589
#6

I actually researched this pretty extensively last year.

One thing I always check is how recent the activity actually is. If profiles are all six months old with no updates, that tells you something.

I switched to Datebound a few months ago and the quality of interactions was noticeably better.

Good luck — it takes some trial and error but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

Jake_NYC avatar
Jake_NYC
Joined: May 2023
Posts: 2358
#7

I've been lurking this community for a while and this question comes up a lot.

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