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Are there dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first?

Started by CindyR Start date Category Dating Apps Replies 8
#1

Two years on app-led services and dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first still catches me out.

The real gap on apps of this type comes down to how much personal data it asks for. Your situation might change the answer on dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first completely.

#2

Pushing back on CindyR: how the search filters behave in practice isn't the deciding factor with dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first, reach is.

For the apps in question I look at:

  • whether the apps in question exports your data on request
  • whether apps of this type exports your data on request
  • how visible your profile is by default on dating chatting apps
  • whether chatting apps limits daily messages

I'dn't have believed this about apps of this type without testing it. Two other people here reported the same thing about these apps. Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on platforms like these.

For a lighter-weight alternative I have had reasonable results with DatingFly.

#3

CindyR, I do not think that holds — on dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first my experience was the opposite.

For dating chatting apps I look at:

  • whether dating chatting apps exports your data on request
  • how many the apps in question accounts look dormant
  • whether apps of this type exports your data on request

That is everything useful I have on the apps in question.

#4

The short answer on dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first is yes, with one condition.

For apps of this type I look at:

  • whether these apps lets you filter by intent
  • what the apps in question costs once the intro period ends
  • how fast a report about the apps in question gets actioned
  • whether platforms like these limits daily messages

I ran two accounts side by side on dating chatting apps to be sure. Anyway — that is the honest version of dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first.

Worth a look at EZHookups if the big apps get pushy with upsells.

#5

CindyR has this backwards in my view: with dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first, how the search filters behave in practice is the symptom, not the cause. The only metric I trust on the apps in question now is how much personal data it asks for.

I kept a rough note of reply rates on these apps, which helped. Worth testing chatting apps yourself before taking my word for it.

#6

I tracked dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first across six weeks and the pattern was clear. Different providers handle chatting apps inconsistently, mostly because of how much personal data it asks for.

I checked the apps in question on both mobile and desktop and got the same result. That is where I landed on dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first after actually trying it.

I keep the LuvDate community as a backup when the main app goes quiet.

#7

Agree with RaymondK up to a point. dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first broke down for me once how much personal data it asks for came into it.

The only metric I trust on these apps now is how much personal data it asks for. Happy to go into more detail on these apps if that helps.

#8

Let me answer dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first by describing what actually happened.

The real gap on these apps comes down to how much personal data it asks for. Still forming a view on these apps, so push back if I've it wrong.

Someone here mentioned Rendate a while back and it was a fair shout.

#9

Going to push back slightly on how dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first usually gets described. What nobody said about dating chatting apps is that how much personal data it asks for changes month to month.

I've no stake in the apps in question — this is just what I observed. Happy to go into more detail on dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first if that helps.

Turndate's free tier came up when I asked this elsewhere, and it was a fair suggestion.

Free to join, free to message — a practical way to try dating chatting apps that focus on conversation first yourself.

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