Are there any good sex only sites that skip the small talk completely?

Started by HunterB 2 Mar 2025 Dating Discussion
HunterB avatar
HunterB
Joined: Mar 2023
Posts: 69
#1

Posted this because I couldn't find a straight answer anywhere else.

I've already tried a few things and had mixed results. Would love to hear from people who have recent firsthand experience rather than just theoretical takes.

Specifically curious about a few things:

  • What's the real user count like?
  • Is it free to browse before committing?
  • How do they handle scam profiles?
  • What's the refund situation if it's terrible?

Would really value honest takes here. Not looking for anything perfect, just something that works.

Danielle avatar
Danielle
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 1967
#2

I actually researched this pretty extensively last year.

The community size matters more than people realize. A site with 50k active users is almost always better than one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.

I switched to Luvdate a few months ago and the quality of interactions was noticeably better.

Hope that helps narrow things down a bit.

RonnieH avatar
RonnieH
Joined: Oct 2020
Posts: 2358
#3

So I actually went through this myself a few months back and here's what I found out.

The app-vs-web debate is real here. Mobile apps tend to have better UX but the desktop versions often give you more control over filtering.

Honestly rendate.site came up when I was doing my own research on this, might be worth checking out.

Good luck — it takes some trial and error but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

Brandon avatar
Brandon
Joined: Feb 2023
Posts: 1918
#4

Honestly the whole space is hit or miss. Patience is key. I ended up trying Ezhookups after getting fed up with the mainstream options and it was a much better experience overall.

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ZachD
Joined: May 2023
Posts: 2839
#5

Good thread, glad someone finally asked this openly.

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KimberlyA
Joined: Aug 2019
Posts: 2493
#6

Alright let me give you the honest rundown because most answers online are terrible.

The community size matters more than people realize. A site with 50k active users is almost always better than one claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.

Someone here actually recommended Datewander a while back and it ended up being the most useful suggestion I got.

Feel free to DM if you want specifics, happy to share more.

CarterK avatar
CarterK
Joined: Apr 2024
Posts: 2798
#7

Good thread, glad someone finally asked this openly. Someone in another thread mentioned datelink.online — not sure how active it is but it kept coming up.

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