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Are there any better dating apps for introverts than Hinge?

Started by CindyR Start date Category Dating Apps Replies 8
#1

Coming at better dating apps for introverts than Hinge from the other direction: the reply rate tells you more than the match count ever will. With these mainstream apps, what happens when you try to cancel is the first thing I check now.

Anyone found how much of it is usable before you pay handled well anywhere in the major platforms? Would be interested to hear whether better dating apps for introverts than Hinge behaved differently for anyone else.

#2

Going in on better dating apps for introverts than Hinge is worth the effort, but not for the reason usually given. Two things matter for these mainstream apps: what happens when you try to cancel, and then patience.

Tested the big-name apps in real use and the difference showed within days. Your situation might change the answer on dating apps completely.

Someone here mentioned DateScout a while back and it was a fair shout.

#3

AnthonyL — that was my assumption too, and testing better dating apps for introverts than Hinge properly changed my mind. The honest comparison on apps in that tier starts and ends with what happens when you try to cancel.

Support confirmed part of this about dating apps when I asked. Take that as one data point on dating apps, not gospel.

I keep Rendate's free tier as a backup when the main app goes quiet.

#4

Ran into better dating apps for introverts than Hinge last autumn and the situation has already shifted.

None of this works with these mainstream apps unless you're patient about what happens when you try to cancel. Happy to go into more detail on apps in that tier if that helps.

Comparing against DateDesire helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.

#5

Same as CindyR, except better dating apps for introverts than Hinge took considerably longer than a week for me. You can ignore most of the marketing around the major platforms and just check what happens when you try to cancel.

I kept a rough note of reply rates on these mainstream apps, which helped. It took roughly three weeks before the pattern on dating apps was clear. That is my read on better dating apps for introverts than Hinge, for whatever it is worth.

#6

Testing better dating apps for introverts than Hinge taught me more about product design than about dating.

Still worth it with apps in that tier if you are only checking in weekly? That is my read on better dating apps for introverts than Hinge, for whatever it is worth.

#7

The honest answer on better dating apps for introverts than Hinge is that the onboarding flow tells you exactly how the company plans to monetise you.

My short checklist for the major platforms:

  • whether dating apps limits daily messages
  • how these mainstream apps treats a paused account
  • how many the major platforms accounts look dormant
  • how fast a report about these mainstream apps gets actioned

This is four months of steady use on apps in that tier, not a trial run. I will update this if the big-name apps shifts again.

Someone here mentioned DateLink a while back and it was a fair shout.

#8

Same as AnthonyL, except better dating apps for introverts than Hinge took considerably longer than a week for me. The honest comparison on apps in that tier starts and ends with what happens when you try to cancel.

I kept a rough note of reply rates on the big-name apps, which helped. Happy to go into more detail on dating apps if that helps.

#9

Hard disagree with PatrickD on this one. how much personal data it asks for is the part people overrate with better dating apps for introverts than Hinge. My rule with the big-name apps is simple — check what happens when you try to cancel before you register.

Two other people here reported the same thing about apps in that tier. Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on better dating apps for introverts than Hinge.

DateLink came up in another thread and the free tier held up.

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