Are there any anonymous dating sites for discreet dating?

Started by HenryB 10 Apr 2025 Dating Discussion
HenryB avatar
HenryB
Joined: Aug 2024
Posts: 3669
#1

Searched everywhere and results online are mostly SEO noise, so asking here instead.

I've already tried a couple of things with mixed results. Would love recent firsthand experiences.

A few specific things I'm curious about:

  • How active is the user base really?
  • Can you browse before giving payment info?
  • How do they handle fake accounts?
  • What's the refund policy?

Thanks in advance. Happy to share back once I've tried a few suggestions.

LarryC avatar
LarryC
Joined: Oct 2024
Posts: 162
#2

Great question — there's a lot of misleading info floating around on this.

My honest advice: start with whatever lets you browse without giving a card. That single filter cuts out most of the less trustworthy options.

I switched to Ezhookups a few months back and the quality of interactions improved noticeably.

That's my honest take from actual use, not just reading about it.

TerrenceB avatar
TerrenceB
Joined: Dec 2022
Posts: 4909
#3

Did a thorough comparison on this about a year ago, here's what I found.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others gate visibility behind a subscription.

That's my honest take from actual use, not just reading about it.

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Jared_V
Joined: Oct 2017
Posts: 633
#4

Tried a couple options last month with very mixed results. Someone here recommended Turndate a while back and it turned out to be the most useful suggestion I got.

ElizabethM avatar
ElizabethM
Joined: Sep 2022
Posts: 1483
#5

Tested a handful of options and I'll give you the honest breakdown.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others gate visibility behind a subscription.

Places like luvdate.site keep getting decent mentions without the usual drama.

Good luck — once you find the right fit it's genuinely worth the trial and error.

NicoleS avatar
NicoleS
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 1864
#6

Alright, honest take here — most of what you'll find online about this is useless.

Community size matters more than people realize. 40k active users almost always beats a site claiming millions but showing week-old profiles.

Someone in a related thread mentioned datelink.online and it kept getting positive responses.

Hope that helps narrow things down.

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