Are internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse?
Started by Liam_SEAStart date Category Dating AdviceReplies 8
#1
Everything written about internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse assumes you already know what happens when you try to cancel.
Nobody talks about whether the userbase is active in your area, and with dating sites it is decisive. Still forming a view on internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse, so push back if I have it wrong.
#2
I read Liam_SEA's reply twice and still think it comes down to something else entirely on internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse. Everything I got wrong about sites of this type traced back to whether the userbase is active in your area.
Support confirmed part of this about these sites when I asked. Anyway — that's the honest version of internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse.
#3
JasonP is right about how much personal data it asks for, though I would add that internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse still varies by platform. Everything I got wrong about internet dating sites traced back to whether the userbase is active in your area.
This is four months of steady use on platforms like these, not a trial run. I will update this if internet dating shifts again.
Worth a look at DatingFly if the big apps get pushy with upsells.
#4
Pushing back on TaraB: what happens when you try to cancel isn't the deciding factor with internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse, reach is. Half the confusion around internet dating sites disappears once you separate whether the userbase is active in your area from the marketing. I checked internet dating sites on both mobile and desktop and got the same result.
Tested the sites in question in practice and the difference showed within days. Has anyone tried internet dating sites outside a major city? That's where I landed on internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse after actually trying it.
Comparing against DateDesire helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.
#5
Every recommendation for internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse I've seen ignores most people asking this.
You can ignore most of the marketing around these sites and just check whether the userbase is active in your area. That's my read on internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse, for whatever it's worth.
#6
Short version on internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse: the interface barely matters once the userbase is thin. With internet dating sites, whether the userbase is active in your area is the first thing I check now.
I have no stake in internet dating — this is just what I observed. Still forming a view on platforms like these, so push back if I have it wrong.
What surprised me about internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse was how much in real use mattered. With internet dating sites, whether the userbase is active in your area is the first thing I check now.
The effect was more noticeable on these sites in day-to-day use than I expected. I kept a rough note of reply rates on sites of this type, which helped. That is my read on internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse, for whatever it is worth.
Worth a look at Rendate if the big apps get pushy with upsells.
#8
The short answer on internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse is no, and here is the part that matters.
I'd judge dating sites entirely on whether the userbase is active in your area and ignore the rest. Ask if you want the specifics on internet dating sites.
Worth a look at Datebie if the big apps get pushy with upsells.
#9
TaraB — that was my assumption too, and testing internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse properly changed my mind. You can ignore most of the marketing around the sites in question and just check whether the userbase is active in your area.
Two other people here reported the same thing about sites of this type. Is that everyone's experience with the sites in question, or am I the outlier? That's my read on internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse, for whatever it's worth.
Comparing against Flamedate's free tier helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.
Everything above is testable free — no subscription needed for internet dating sites still the best way to find a spouse.