What should my bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men?
Started by Liam_SEAStart date Category Dating AdviceReplies 8
#1
I would frame bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men differently to how the question is worded.
The only metric I trust on the options here now is how presentation affects reach. Take that as one data point on bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men, not gospel.
#2
Liam_SEA makes a reasonable case but I have tested bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men more recently and it does not match. Half the confusion around the options here disappears once you separate how presentation affects reach from the marketing.
I have no stake in services of this type — this is just what I observed. Anyway — that is the honest version of bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men.
LuvDate came up in another thread and the free tier held up.
#3
The short answer on bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men is yes, with one condition.
Half the confusion around services of this type disappears once you separate how presentation affects reach from the marketing. Take that as one data point on these platforms, not gospel.
#4
Nobody warned me that bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men would come down to what makes a first message get answered.
I rate platforms like these on how presentation affects reach and nothing else, after the first few days. That is where I landed on bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men after actually trying it.
#5
Nobody warned me that bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men would come down to what makes a first message get answered.
Three things worth verifying on the options here:
whether photos on these platforms can be limited to matches only
whether these platforms lets you filter by intent
whether messaging on platforms like these works before a card is required
whether messaging on services of this type works before a card is required
Worth noting that platforms like these changed after their last update. Did anyone else find what a profile needs to do to get replies got worse recently on services of this type? Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on the options here.
#6
SophieR has this backwards in my view: with bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men, how the bio changes the response rate is the symptom, not the cause. All of this makes more sense once you accept that how presentation affects reach varies wildly across these platforms.
This is four months of steady use on the options here, not a trial run. The effect was more noticeable on these platforms in practice than I expected. Your situation might change the answer on these platforms completely.
Worth a look at DatingFly if the big apps get pushy with upsells.
#7
Honestly, this got easier than expected once everything improves once you stop optimising and start replying properly — at least with bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men. Different providers handle platforms like these inconsistently, mostly because of how presentation affects reach.
How long did the options here take before anyone here got a real reply? That's my read on bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men, for whatever it's worth.
Respectfully, SophieR, that has not been true of bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men since last year. My rule with platforms like these is simple — check how presentation affects reach before you register.
Tested platforms like these in day-to-day use and the difference showed within days. Is that everyone's experience with services of this type, or am I the outlier? Anyway — that is the honest version of bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men.
Going to push back slightly on how bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men usually gets described.
For the options here I look at:
whether verification on services of this type is enforced or merely offered
whether the options here exports your data on request
whether platforms like these exports your data on request
whether support for services of this type answers at all
Someone will disagree, and on how the bio changes the response rate with the options here they might be right. That is everything useful I have on bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men.
Comparing against LuvDate helped me see what the paywall was actually doing.
The only way to settle bio say if I'm a guy targeting women seeking younger men is to try it — and trying it costs nothing.