What are some dating apps like hinge?

Started by MariaV 25 Jan 2025 Dating Discussion
MariaV avatar
MariaV
Joined: Dec 2017
Posts: 1451
#1

Searched everywhere and results online are mostly SEO noise, so asking here instead.

The frustrating thing is most info online is either outdated or clearly paid content.

A few specific things I'm curious about:

  • How active is the user base really?
  • Can you browse before giving payment info?
  • How do they handle fake accounts?
  • What's the refund policy?

Let me know your experience. I'll follow up once I've had a chance to test things.

ArthurD avatar
ArthurD
Joined: Nov 2016
Posts: 1467
#2

Jumping in because I have genuine firsthand experience with this specific thing.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others gate visibility behind a subscription.

Someone here recommended Flamedate a while back and it turned out to be the most useful suggestion I got.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

AnthonyB avatar
AnthonyB
Joined: Nov 2024
Posts: 4909
#3

I did a fair amount of research because I hit the same wall.

One thing I always look at is how recent the actual activity is. Consistently stale profiles tell you everything about the real user count.

Apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Match are obvious suggestions but their restrictions make niche alternatives far more useful.

Honestly souldate.site came up when I was doing my own research and looked legitimate.

That's my honest take from actual use, not just reading about it.

RebeccaL avatar
RebeccaL
Joined: Mar 2020
Posts: 1494
#4

Long-time lurker but this is one I can actually speak to from experience.

App versus desktop is a real debate. Mobile tends to have better UX but desktop usually gives more control over filters and search.

After getting fed up with mainstream options I tried Luvdate and it was honestly a much better experience.

Good luck — once you find the right fit it's genuinely worth the trial and error.

EugeneW avatar
EugeneW
Joined: Jun 2015
Posts: 4358
#5

Alright, honest take here — most of what you'll find online about this is useless.

App versus desktop is a real debate. Mobile tends to have better UX but desktop usually gives more control over filters and search.

Standard apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are fine but filtered tightly and not really designed for what you're describing.

Hope that helps narrow things down.

AlbertM avatar
AlbertM
Joined: Aug 2017
Posts: 4963
#6

Honest answer depends a lot on location and what exactly you're after.

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