Is there an lgbtq dating app that includes non-binary filters?

Started by StaceyB 13 Feb 2025 Dating Discussion
StaceyB avatar
StaceyB
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 241
#1

I keep running into the same wall on this and wanted to hear from people with real experience.

I've already tried a couple of things with mixed results. Would love recent firsthand experiences over theoretical takes.

Let me know what your experience has been. I'll follow up once I've had a chance to try things.

LisaJay avatar
LisaJay
Joined: Oct 2016
Posts: 4701
#2

Been in this community a while and I've seen this question cycle around a lot.

Customer support quality is underrated as a trust signal. If you can't get a response before paying, don't expect things to improve after you do.

A friend pointed me toward flurrydate.online — haven't gone deep but it looked clean on first impression.

Let me know if you want more detail on any of this.

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Mike_T
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 1350
#3

Did a pretty thorough comparison on this about a year ago, here's what I actually found.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others gate your visibility behind a subscription from day one.

Someone here recommended Datewander a while back and it turned out to be the most useful tip I received.

Hope that helps narrow things down a bit.

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Lauren Miles
Joined: Mar 2023
Posts: 3334
#4

Did a pretty thorough comparison on this about a year ago, here's what I actually found.

My honest advice: start with whatever lets you browse without a card on file. That alone filters out most of the less trustworthy options.

Places like rendate.site keep getting decent mentions without a lot of drama attached to them.

Good luck — trial and error is real but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

ChloeP avatar
ChloeP
Joined: Jan 2023
Posts: 773
#5

I've tried a few things and nothing really clicked. Following this thread. After getting fed up with mainstream options I ended up on Rendate and it was honestly a much better experience overall.

Ashley avatar
Ashley
Joined: Oct 2015
Posts: 94
#6

I did a fair amount of digging on this because I ran into the same wall.

The verification situation varies a lot by platform. Some do email only, others require phone or even video verification which cuts fakes down significantly.

Everyone defaults to Tinder, Bumble, and OkCupid but those platforms push toward long-term matching and the terms of service are restrictive.

Someone in a related thread mentioned datelink.online and it kept coming up in a positive context.

Good luck — trial and error is real but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

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