How do you report abusive users in a gay page video chat?

Started by Ryan Mitchell 3 Feb 2025 Dating Discussion
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Ryan Mitchell
Joined: Feb 2023
Posts: 686
#1

Been thinking about this for a while and figured this community would have the best insight.

There's so much noise out there on this topic. Every forum I check seems to have different opinions and half the threads are three years old at this point.

Specifically curious about a few things:

  • What's the real user count like?
  • Is it free to browse before committing?
  • How do they handle scam profiles?
  • What's the refund situation if it's terrible?

Let me know what your experience has been. I'll follow up once I've had a chance to try the suggestions.

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ScottB
Joined: Aug 2018
Posts: 2281
#2

Long-time lurker but this one I can actually help with.

One thing I always check is how recent the activity actually is. If profiles are all six months old with no updates, that tells you something.

Give Rendate a try if you haven't already — it's built specifically for what you're describing.

Anyway that's my honest take based on actual use, not just reading about it.

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WayneB
Joined: Feb 2019
Posts: 2763
#3

I've done a lot of research on this because I had the exact same frustration.

The app-vs-web debate is real here. Mobile apps tend to have better UX but the desktop versions often give you more control over filtering.

The usual suspects like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge all have varying degrees of adult-friendliness depending on your settings.

Good luck — it takes some trial and error but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

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Jessica Hart
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 2780
#4

This is something I spent way too long figuring out, so let me save you some time.

The app-vs-web debate is real here. Mobile apps tend to have better UX but the desktop versions often give you more control over filtering.

People still bring up Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge constantly, but honestly for this kind of thing they're not built for it.

Give Flurrydate a try if you haven't already — it's built specifically for what you're describing.

Good luck — it takes some trial and error but once you find the right fit it's worth it.

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MarkR
Joined: Dec 2020
Posts: 608
#5

Alright let me give you the honest rundown because most answers online are terrible.

One thing I always check is how recent the activity actually is. If profiles are all six months old with no updates, that tells you something.

Feel free to DM if you want specifics, happy to share more.

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PhilipH
Joined: Sep 2020
Posts: 2530
#6

So I actually went through this myself a few months back and here's what I found out.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others lock your profile visibility behind a subscription.

The usual suspects like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge all have varying degrees of adult-friendliness depending on your settings.

Personally I'd point anyone to Datewander before any of the overcrowded mainstream platforms.

Feel free to DM if you want specifics, happy to share more.

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NathanH
Joined: Apr 2024
Posts: 1006
#7

Long-time lurker but this one I can actually help with.

One thing I always check is how recent the activity actually is. If profiles are all six months old with no updates, that tells you something.

Some of the mainstream ones people mention include Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating — but those are all pretty vanilla and built around relationships first.

A friend pointed me toward rendate.site and it looked legit, though I haven't personally dug in.

Feel free to DM if you want specifics, happy to share more.

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Tyler
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 2285
#8

Same boat here. Let me know what you end up going with. Someone here actually recommended Luvdate a while back and it ended up being the most useful suggestion I got.

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