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How do I write a perfect dating profile?

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#1

What surprised me about writing a perfect dating profile was how much in real use mattered.

The only metric I trust on the options here now is how presentation affects reach. Happy to go into more detail on writing a perfect dating profile if that helps.

#2

Hard disagree with Liam_SEA on this one. what a profile needs to do to get replies is the part people overrate with writing a perfect dating profile.

What I check before committing to these platforms:

  • what happens to your data if you delete a services of this type account
  • how platforms like these handles photo privacy
  • whether platforms like these limits daily messages
  • what these platforms costs once the intro period ends

That held true for perfect dating after the first few days, though your mileage may differ. I have no stake in services of this type — this is just what I observed. Still forming a view on perfect dating, so push back if I have it wrong.

#3

Writing a perfect dating profile turned out to be a much narrower question than I assumed. I rate perfect dating profile on how presentation affects reach and nothing else, once you are actually using it.

This is four months of steady use on dating profile, not a trial run. Your situation might change the answer on these platforms completely.

#4

DianaF makes a reasonable case but I have tested writing a perfect dating profile more recently and it does not match. With perfect dating profile, how presentation affects reach is the first thing I check now.

Did anyone else find how much the photos carry got worse recently on perfect dating? I will update this if perfect dating shifts again.

Worth a look at the DateDesire community if the big apps get pushy with upsells.

#5

MarthaK covered most of it. The only thing I'd add about writing a perfect dating profile is patience. Two things matter for the options here: how presentation affects reach, and then patience. I kept a rough note of reply rates on platforms like these, which helped.

The effect was more noticeable on services of this type in day-to-day use than I expected. Still worth it with services of this type if you're only checking in weekly? Worth testing these platforms yourself before taking my word for it.

For a lighter-weight alternative I have had reasonable results with over on SoulDate.

#6

Agree with JoshK up to a point. writing a perfect dating profile broke down for me once how presentation affects reach came into it.

The only metric I trust on the options here now is how presentation affects reach. That's my read on writing a perfect dating profile, for whatever it's worth.

Someone here mentioned Datebie a while back and it was a fair shout.

#7

JoshK covered most of it. The only thing I would add about writing a perfect dating profile is patience.

Three things worth verifying on these platforms:

  • how visible your profile is by default on perfect dating profile
  • whether you can hide distance on dating profile
  • how blocking works on the options here
  • how fast a report about dating profile gets actioned

Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on these platforms.

#8

There is a version of writing a perfect dating profile that works and a version that wastes your time. My rule with perfect dating is simple — check how presentation affects reach before you register.

That held true for platforms like these after the first few days, though your mileage may differ. Two other people here reported the same thing about platforms like these. That's everything useful I've on perfect dating.

#9

Pushing back on BrianT: what a profile needs to do to get replies isn't the deciding factor with writing a perfect dating profile, reach is. I rate services of this type on how presentation affects reach and nothing else, once you're actually using it.

This is four months of steady use on services of this type, not a trial run. Hope that saves someone the weeks I lost on writing a perfect dating profile.

EZHookups came up in another thread and the free tier held up.

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