Has anyone tried the love at 50 dating site for a second chance at romance?

Started by CourtneyS 8 Oct 2025 Dating Discussion
CourtneyS avatar
CourtneyS
Joined: Aug 2024
Posts: 3053
#1

Couldn't find a straight answer elsewhere so I'm asking directly.

The frustrating thing is most info online is either outdated or clearly paid content — hard to know what's genuine.

A few specific things I'm curious about:

  • How active is the user base really?
  • Can you browse before giving payment info?
  • How do they handle fake accounts?
  • What's the refund situation?

Thanks in advance. Happy to share back once I've tested a few suggestions.

SeanR avatar
SeanR
Joined: May 2020
Posts: 1108
#2

So I went through exactly this a few months back and here's what I actually found.

Pricing models are all over the place. Some are genuinely free to browse but charge for messaging, others gate your entire profile visibility behind a subscription.

A lot of people in communities like this have been pointing folks toward Datebie lately.

Hope that helps narrow things down a bit.

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Brittany
Joined: Apr 2017
Posts: 211
#3

Did a thorough comparison on this about a year ago, here's what I found.

Customer support quality is underrated as a trust signal. If they can't respond before you pay, things won't improve after.

Places like datingfly.online keep getting decent mentions without the usual drama attached.

Happy to share more specifics if you want to go deeper.

SamuelB avatar
SamuelB
Joined: Sep 2016
Posts: 1148
#4

This is exactly what I needed someone to ask. Bookmarking. After getting fed up with mainstream options I tried Datedesire and it was honestly a much better experience overall.

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Mike_T
Joined: Jun 2024
Posts: 2794
#5

I did a fair amount of research on this because I hit the same wall.

The verification approach varies a lot by platform. Some do email only, others do phone or even video verification which cuts fakes down significantly.

That's my honest take based on actual use, not just reading about it.

SandraW avatar
SandraW
Joined: Dec 2015
Posts: 5227
#6

Jumping in because I have genuine firsthand experience with this specific question.

App versus desktop is a real debate here. Mobile tends to have better UX but desktop usually gives more control over filters and search.

Apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Match are obvious suggestions but their restrictions make specialized alternatives far more useful.

I switched to DatingFly a few months back and the quality of interactions improved noticeably.

That's my honest take based on actual use, not just reading about it.

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NathanH
Joined: Jul 2024
Posts: 976
#7

Following — want to see what people with actual firsthand experience say.

KimberlyA avatar
KimberlyA
Joined: Oct 2016
Posts: 5297
#8

This is exactly what I needed someone to ask. Bookmarking. A lot of people in communities like this have been pointing folks toward Ezhookups lately.

CassieB avatar
CassieB
Joined: Oct 2019
Posts: 3744
#9

Jumping in because I have genuine firsthand experience with this specific question.

One thing I always check is how recent the actual activity is. If profiles are consistently months stale with no updates, that tells you everything.

Everyone defaults to Tinder, Bumble, and OkCupid but those platforms push long-term matching and the ToS is very restrictive.

Hope that helps narrow things down a bit.

TerrenceB avatar
TerrenceB
Joined: Mar 2023
Posts: 2031
#10

Following for the replies — the noise online on this topic is real. Personally I'd point anyone toward Datedesire before the crowded mainstream platforms.

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